Mother's Day commercialism creates an aura of love, joy and happiness.  Mothers all over Mother Earth are celebrated with love, yet... not everyone is  a loving mother. 

Some women who are mothers are emotionally and/or physically abusive, emotionally and/or physically absent or unavailable. 

If your relationship with your mother leaves you feeling:

~ broken
~ lost
~ confused
~ inadequate
~ not good enough
~ insignificant
~ unnecessary
~ unlovable
~ hurt
~ angry
~...bad about yourself...

If this describes your mother, please accept the fact that their behavior has nothing to do with you - it's them.  Their behavior, and consequences of their behavior, is their burden to bear.  Not yours.  You are collateral damage.

It may be time to cut the umbilical cord and be ok with the termination of the relationship.

You cannot change your mom - or anyone else, what you can do, is heal the pain within you.

Mother's Day and other family holidays slap us in the face with the painful longing of loving relationships with parents, siblings, sons and daughters.  It's a time we question ourselves, "What is wrong with me?"

Begin in this moment to open your heart to the full knowing within you that there's nothing wrong with you.

You're not: broken, inadequate, insignificant, or unnecessary.

You ARE:

~ Good Enough!
~ Significant!
~ Necessary!
~ Lovable!

AND... you deserve to be happy - no matter what anyone else says, does or implies.

So... what can you do to make this longing for loving relationships better?

Connect with the loving essence of God within you...

and send all the love of your heart to your mom with the intention of creating a higher outcome.

(This is a powerful, healing, action step you can do whether your mom is living or deceased.)

I know...  your relationship may be so awkward and strained... and sending love to her is the last thing you want to do, so send love to the God Part within her that is love.

No matter how awful someone is, they still have an essence of God within them - they are love at their core.  EveryOne is love at their core.

THIS IS What Happens when you access the love within YOU and send that love to your mom:

* you raise your vibration to that of love - a vibration that hurtful negativity cannot penetrate!!!
* you face the pain within you - illuminating the darkness of it with light ...and healing begins
* you infuse her with love - lighting the way for her to choose a higher outcome for herself and ultimately for you (she may or may not choose to take this higher outcome, but it is there)
* you create a higher outcome for yourself - peace, joy, happiness, LOVE. (no matter what she does, you are in your power of Love)

AND...  most importantly, sending love to her is something you do by yourself - without any interaction with her at all.

I know... you may want an apology from her, or some form of acknowledgment of not only how she's treated you, but that she's sorry.  She can apologize till she's blue in the face, and really mean it, but her apology is coming from outside of you.  The pain you feel is inside of you... and she can't heal that pain - it's an inside job - your job to heal from within.

To help support you to understand this form of healing and to take the action steps to begin this healing, please accept as my gift to you, the Master Loving Relationships from Family to Work program.  This is a 90 minute program that was recorded live.  I hope you will download the audio file and the transcript and use it to begin healing form deep within.